Random post about a lot of something and some of nothing. Random things that come up in the state of this thing we called being human. Common themes (with simple flips) that come up as the root of some of the most complex of problems for clients and their organizations. Try these on, which one's resonate? Which one's serve you? Which one's point to "No, not that, geeesh...but ah, Yes! definitely...that!"
Mirror Mirror on the wall...How do you create respect?
The way I see it, there are two general ways to come at respect - be entitled to it and expect it; or be generous with it and earn it. Both are real approaches. Both bring completely different energy, elicit completely different emotions, and create completely different impact.
Leadership super power "vitamin e: exhilaration"
I'm working on a couple of articles right now - one on "leadership vitamins". Yep.
when you think you have to work harder...you're probably wrong.
In working with clients, I get to observe some of the biggest beliefs that get in the way of positive, effective and joyful leadership. One of these beliefs is "If I work harder, I'll have more success, and I'll be happier." "If I just push through this...." Not so true.
Self care isn't just for breakfast anymore...
Just back from SF for the past week where I had a really rich-for-the-spirit week of doing work I love, taking great care of myself, and hanging out with people I appreciate. From facilitating a team on vision and their "why", to doing a bunch of one-on-one's with members from that leadership team, to leading a private retreat for a client in a gorgeous penthouse, to meeting with some of my business advisors on what I'm up to and how my business can be even more helpful with this thang I do in leadership, it was a full week. When I got back on Friday and stepped into more intense meetings that were mainly all about 2012 planning for clients, I felt GREAT. Completely energized. Energized in a new sort of way. And I had to really pause and think about WHY.